Why Men Are Silent
Here we have five examples of men who
were silent. In each situation the result was much harm to others. We might say
the result was chaos.
When God spoke, He made order out of
chaos. When man fails to act in God’s image, and speak, the result is more
chaos. And very important to recognize: It brings the severing of relationship.
And that is what this is all about relationships. How is my silence going to
affect my relationship with others?
The Bible shows that it will
definitely destroy them.
1.
Adam’s silence destroyed his relationship with God and his wife.
2.
Abraham’s silence resulted in the Arab/Israeli conflict.
3. Lot’s
relationship with his daughters and his wife was not good.
4.
Isaac had almost no relationship with his wife or son, Jacob. This is obvious
when you read the story of Isaac’s deception at the blessing. Isaac never
talks to Rebekah. He never talks to Jacob (except when he thinks Jacob is Esau).
Rebekah never talks to Esau. And Jacob never talks to Esau. You see a family
divided right down the middle.
Notice also that in each of these
situations, when the man was silent, the women stepped in and took control. God
said that was going to be the woman’s natural tendency in Gen. 3:16, and we
can see it happening over and over again.
So, man’s natural tendency is to be
silent. But what we’ve seen so far ought to do away with the description of a
man as "The Strong Silent Type." When you understand these principles,
it makes you want to change it to "The Weak Silent Type."
Summary
What we’ve seen is that God speaks
into disorder and creates order and life. Man is created in God’s image and
should also speak into disorder and create order and life.
But man’s natural tendency is to
avoid the chaos and to be silent. When he does that he creates even more chaos
and destroys relationships.
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